White TieThis is ultra, ultra formal. Ball gowns, floor-length evening dresses, long gloves and plenty of jewels are required of the ladies,
and a hat, tail coat and, of course, a white bow tie of the men. Unless your
sister is marrying Prince William, (or you’re Julia Roberts at the opera in
Pretty Woman) don’t expect to be invited to many of these, but it’s always good
to be prepared!
Gowns of Elegance
Black Tie
Think weddings, awards ceremonies,
and red-carpet events – ladies, this is your time to up the glam factor. A
longer dress is best - preferably in a luxurious fabric such as silk, satin or
chiffon – with delicate beading, sequins or embroidery for extra allure. Men
should wear a tuxedo and bow tie, but if your man considers himself a bit of a
fashion-mister, a long, skinny black tie is also acceptable.
Formal
or Black Tie Optional
A dark suit is expected and more commonly worn at
these events, however, should your man choose to don a tux he won’t be out of
place. Ladies, outfits as above.
Lounge Suit or Cocktail
This
‘do is definitely less formal, but while a shorter style of dress or cocktail gown is acceptable
for the ladies, a certain level of elegance is still expected. Your inspiration
here is more Blake Lively, Anne Hathaway, or Emma Watson, rather than Paris
Hilton, Britney or Li Lo. As the name suggests, men should wear a suit -
something they would wear to work, along with a nice tie will go down well. Dark
hues are always dressier however, as the dress code is more relaxed, your man
can play around with colour and introduce more of his individual
style.
Smart-Casual
This code is often used for informal events
- such as beach weddings or engagement parties - but doesn’t mean you can rock
up in your jeans (even if they are your skinniest, most uber-glam Sass &
Bides!) Ladies, opt for a fashionable frock and cute heels; men go for tailored
trousers with a shirt and blazer or jacket for a more relaxed look.
And lastly, ladies, the cardinal rule -
save the white for the bride!